Nastiness (Fandango’s Friday Flashback)

Yay, it is Friday again, and Fandango has just published his Friday Flashback post. The idea is that he picks a post from this day in a previous year, to give newer readers a better insight into what does and doesn’t make him tick.

I have always liked that idea, so shall also post my own reminiscence. As much as anything, it reminds me of where I was, where I am now, and how far I have come. Hopefully, you will find it entertaining along the way.


This one is from this day in 2017. I was a year on from the stroke, and still struggling to get around the place. Some of you might say that, even now!

The post really says it all, although I have to say my experience of people’s attitudes to disability has been 99% positive. At last, 99% not particularly negative. There’s actually an awful lot of discrimination around, but this is mostly due to ignorance and not malice. But every now and again there is one twat.

Mister Bump

Whatever people might say about me behind my back, I am very fortunate in that the people I meet in everyday life are generally very nice.

I was abruptly reminded today that there are other types of people. A workman parked his pick up truck on the pavement right in front of me, forcing me to walk into the road around it. I mean, it must be obvious to anybody that I am disabled and struggling. “Thank you for your consideration”, I said. “What’s the matter? You can walk, can’t you?”

Yes, I can walk. I learned to again last year during my month in hospital.

I must admit that I feel that the stroke played with my emotions a bit, but the positive side of these incidents is probably that they invoke the same kind of reaction that I’d have recognised in the “old me”.

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Author: Mister Bump UK

Formerly Stroke Survivor UK. Designed/developed IT systems for banks, but had a stroke in 2016, aged 48. Returned to developing from home, plus do some voluntary work. Married, with a grown-up, left-home daughter.

2 thoughts on “Nastiness (Fandango’s Friday Flashback)”

    1. that’s just the way it is. At the start of this outbreak, a friend reported a Facebook comment where the author said that the virus was a good thing because it would thin the oldies out of society. People like that are out there.

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